By Bill & Kristi Gaultiere © 2006
Below are twelve desires that are probably important to you in your marriage.
On the left column indicate the top six ways that you like your spouse to show you loving attention. All 12 may be important to you, but rank them from 1 to 6 with 1 being the desire that is most important to you.
Then on the right column indicate the top six ways that you think your spouse wants you to give loving attention.
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Top 6 Marital Desires for You |
Priority Desires in your Marriage |
Top 6 Marital Desires for Spouse |
| Sex | ||
| Recreational Companionship | ||
| Having my Spouse Look Attractive | ||
| Domestic Support | ||
| Verbal Affirmation / Appreciation | ||
| Romance | ||
| Financial Security | ||
| Receiving Gifts | ||
| Listening | ||
| Affection (Nonsexual) | ||
| Help with Kids | ||
| Confidentiality |
After you’ve ranked your top 6 desires for your marriage share them with your spouse to learn how you can better show your love to one another.
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