With Jesus Beside Still Waters
A Soul Shepherding Moment
By Bill Gaultiere © 2011
We’ve been providing care, counsel, and prayer to pastors and other servants of Christ for a number of years. One of the most important things we do is help them to rest in God.
Every pastor and ministry leader I know — starting with the one that looks back at me in the mirror! — needs more of the rest of soul that Jesus offers us in his embrace (Matthew 11:28-30). Probably this is true for you as well.
How easy it is to be so busy with God’s work and caring for people that you neglect your own intimacy with Christ and miss out on the soul rest that you need! And when you are not resting in Christ you will not be able to share his love effectively with others.
I want to share with you a meditation that will give you perspective and inspire you to learn to live in Jesus’ easy yoke so you can share it with others. It’s called “Rest” and its written by William C. Martin for the pastor, but it applies to all ministry leaders and Christ followers:
Rest
If you fill your calendar with important appointments
you will have no time for God.
If you fill your spare time with essential reading
you will starve your soul.
If you fill your mind with worry
about budgets and offerings,
the pains in your chest and the ache in your shoulders
will betray you.
If you try to conform to the expectations
of those around you
you will forever be their slave.
Work a modest day
then step back and rest.
This will keep you close to God.
What Does Your Calendar Look Like?
Before God’s rest gets in our soul it’ll be in our daily schedules. So Martin concludes his thought on rest with this observation:
One of the first things I look at when I begin spiritual direction with a pastor is his or her daily planner. It reveals volumes about that pastor’s spiritual condition, values, fears, and ambitions. It tells me who their bosses are, who their lover is, and how much value they place on their soul. If you’re working more than 50 hours a week, you’re not doing it for God no matter how eloquent your rationalizations.
Take a long, prayerful, meditative look at your calendar. Who are you trying to impress? God? Give me a break. The congregation? Possibly. Yourself? Bingo!
Now cut some big chunks out of each week for family, rest, meditation, prayer, and flower sniffing. When you’ve done that we’ll talk more about the path to God.
(William C. Martin, The Art of Pastoring: Contemplative Reflections, © 1994, p. 9. Martin’s writing is inspired by the Tao Te Ching, a 6th Century pre-Christian classic by Chinese sage, Lao Tzu. It’s written in the style Jesus spoke in, using images, parables, and paradoxes.)
More Soul Shepherding
Do you practice Sabbath time? My article on “Sabbath-Keeping” will inspire you and give you some ideas.
Check out my book, “You Can Live in Jesus’ Easy Yoke: His Rhythms of Grace for Your Daily Stress.”
Soul Shepherding is for you and your ministry. We offer psychotherapy and also spiritual direction/mentoring for pastors, pastor’s wives, missionaries, leaders, and other Christ-followers. It’s our joy to invite others to join us in the Sabbath rest of God. May God help you to enjoy his abundant and eternal life and to grow in your capacity to minister his life to others.
Bill Gaultiere, Ph.D. & Kristi Gaultiere, Psy.D. ~ SoulShepherding.org
